Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts

May 23, 2008

ABC....s of Parenting

My younger daughter is learning Alphabets. I am learning Alphabets too. The ABC....s of Parenting. I love learning it afresh everyday.

A is for Acceptance.
Life deals us all sorts of cards. Accept what you can't change and move on.

B is for Boundaries.
Boundaries aren't barriers, they are safe limits within which kids can explore and develop.

C is for Communication.
Keep talking and listening to your kids and to each other.

D is for Determination.
Focus on achieving your positive goals and make sure you follow through.

E is for Effort.
Go the extra mile in everything you do and you will be rewarded with results.

F is for Family.
Recognize the uniqueness of your family and embrace it.

G is for Giving.
Be generous on every level in your parenting.

H is for Honesty.
Honesty is the only foundation on which to build trust.

I is for Involvement.
Get you kids involved in what you do.

J is for Journey.
Recognize the milestones you achieve along the way and the adversities you overcome.

K is for Kindness.
Show your kids compassion and basic human kindness.

L is for Love.
Love is unconditional. It's the strongest force there is.

M is for Manners.
Teach composure and good conduct. Lead by example.

N is for Nurturing.
Nurture your children's emotional needs.

O is for One-to-One.
It bonds the ties between each member of the family unit.

P is for Praise.
Reward good behavior with positive affirmation.

Q is for Quality Time.
Parenting may be hard work, but it isn't a chore. Cherish your special moments.

R is for Respect.
Provide your kids with the guidance they need to respect themselves and others.

S is for Sharing.
Sharing is the key to social skills and building strength in relationships.

T is for Time.
Manage your time efficiency to keep chaos and disarray at bay.

U is for Understanding.
Acknowledge your child's viewpoint and put yourself in their shoes.

V is for Values.
Teach your kids your family values.

W is for Wisdom.
Wisdom comes from experience and from having the courage to step forward & make mistakes.

X is for Kisses.
Kids and parents can't get enough of them.

Y is for You.
Look after yourself and recharge your batteries. If your emotional purse is empty, you'll have nothing to give your kids.

Z is for Zzzzzzzzzzzzz. Sweet dreams !

Jan 13, 2008

Love your Parents

"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new."


"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny."



"I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life."
"Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible."

"How pleasant it is for a father to sit at his child's board. It is like an aged man reclining under the shadow of an oak which he has planted."
Love Your parents !